theconcealedweapon:

When studies show that underage drinking is harmful, it’s banned easily. But when studies show that spanking is harmful, it remains legal and parents still insist on doing it.

Age restrictions on purchasing cigarettes pass easily. But laws prohibiting smoking where children are forced to breathe in secondhand smoke are much harder to pass.

Children under a certain age are prohibited from using most social media websites. But adults are allowed to post videos of their children’s meltdowns.

Teenagers need their parents’ permission to get body modifications. But parents can get their babies’ ears pierced.

Anyone who genuinely wants to protect children would not panic about the children’s own choices while ignoring what adults force on them. Anyone who genuinely wants to protect children would not insist that studies on the dangers of children’s own choices be fully trusted and obeyed while ignoring and arguing with studies on the dangers of how adults treat children.

But many adults just want to control children, not protect them.

(via letitrainathousandflames)

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killyfromblame:

killyfromblame:

Communicating with my cat is so crazy, it’s like, you watch my back for predators when I sleep. You meow only because you know that I vocalize often, but the words I use are nothing to you unless they’re associated with things relevant to your little baby life (food, for example). You slow blink at me because you feel safe with me. You point your ass at my face, indicating that you trust me to watch your back for predators, because you feel safe with me. You sit in my lap and sleep pressed against my side because you need to warm yourself up, and you trust me to warm you. I know this because I have access to information. If I didn’t, these things would be weird to me. I call you Lulu, but you don’t need a name for me; you have your senses to identify me. You smell me to identify me. You nuzzle me with your head to mark me as family with your scent. We ARE family. You are both the baby I feed and the elderly little lady who watches over me. It’s a very special and pure interspecies bond. I have a concept of “love” that is metaphysical, conceptual; you have an instinctual bond to those that you “trust” to help you survive (and that you, in turn, help to survive). You DO aid my survival on an emotional level that you can’t possibly understand, because you try to aid me on the physical level that comes naturally to you. Who said survival of the fittest has no room for love? We share the pure love of deep friendship because you and I must survive. My creature, Lulu, my best friend. My stinky.

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The comments and tags on this post have been very sweet, I really love hearing about everyone’s cats. Feeling a little self-conscious because this drunken emotional outburst (seriously, I had a few drinks, looked at Lulu, and started crying and writing this) has been tagged as poetry a few times. Now I wish I could go back in time and edit it for flow and word choice, but it’s too late now…

(via heartunsettledsoul)

words cats by beloved

ivecarvedawoodenheart:

like there comes a point where you think something is fundamentally wrong with you. and then it turns out it’s just Friday and you haven’t washed your hair in three days and maybe you’re also just a little lonely and the combination of all three of those things is whittling a hole into your chest every time you breathe. but also the sun’s up. and you’ve survived everything so far, so you’ll survive this too, even if it hurts, even if you have to survive it many times.

(via shizuoi)

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patrickztump:

a redemption poll from that last dog name one i did:

what is your pet named after?

space / nature / another animal /etc

character / show / song / album / etc (media/entertainment)

celebrity / public / historical figure / etc

family member / ancestral name / etc

food / object / brand / miscellaneous

they already had their current name

just a classic pet name (buddy, fluffy, charlie, sadie, etc.)

i have multiple pets (several of these)

other (share in tags)

reblog for a larger sample <3

(via the-magnificunt)

my cats name is Ketchup polls


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